Some thoughts came up after read Eric’s recent post(why criticize other?). I believe most people including myself criticize a lot sometime, and I do agree what Eric told in his article.
My personal opinion is that most of us were lock of confidence, so we compare ourselves to others, we were afraid to be different, or we just hate when things do not stick with our plan…
The easiest way or the method that most people do is to hang with other haters, and start critiquing all the shits that do not work out the way you liked; does it really works? well, I guess at the moment, maybe yes, but you can really feel the emptiness after the conversation is over while you were on your bed alone.
I know its hard, but let’s all try Eric’s suggestions from now
- For a year try to never critique someone else outloud or in conversation with others. I think to critique others in your head is natural and fine; but just keep it to yourself.
- Before critiquing someone else, ask yourself: “Have I been guilty of that in the past?”
- Focus on yourself and ignore others.
I really prefer to share more fun stories with friends and families.
Love yourself, focus on yourself!
Charlie